Talking dirty doesn’t have to involve the skills of a phone sex operator. It doesn’t have to mean a lifetime of practice to get it right. Learning how to talk dirty requires only a creative mind, a willingness to learn, and a sexy lover to practice on!
To begin, sit down when everything is quiet and you have plenty of time to think. What do you like the most about your lover? Write down the physical things you love – his strong arms, his powerful hands, and his gorgeous rear. Now write down the emotional things you love – the way he tells you how he feels, the way he gives you that special glance that says he wants you and no one else.
Finally, write down a list of what you love to feel him do to you. Get specific! Do you love it when he does that little thing with his fingers that makes you forget your own name? Or do you like the way he invites you into the shower with him and gets naughty among all the bubbles?
Now, take that list and add adjectives to it. You like his hands? How about his strong, powerful, sexy hands? How about those strong, powerful, sexy hands that can make your body tingle? Where on your body does he make you tingle? Get specific and hard-core if you want! The point is to describe what you like about him, and what those things do for you.
Now you can take those first steps into dirty talk in the bedroom. Does your lover have the best rear you’ve ever seen? Grab it while you’re in bed and whisper into his ear, “I just love your gorgeous ass.” Do you love the way he kisses you? Tell him! “When you kiss me, all I can think about is getting you naked.”
Start out slow and easy with your dirty talk. Once you’re comfortable with giving out compliments in the bedroom, you can describe what it feels when he does certain things to your body. Once you’re comfortable with that, you can start asking for more. And once you’re comfortable with the words you use to express how he makes you feel, you can start adding hotter words to it – until eventually you are whispering hard-core things into his ear and making him blush even while you’re in bed together!
Dirty talk doesn’t have to be difficult. Simply start by thinking about what you love about your partner, and then tell him exactly what went through your mind. It’s a good start that will lead to an even hotter ending!
